Getting started with matrimony
Share your story. Learn theirs.
Learn how to create a Deshi Ghotok profile, express interest and begin a conversation. A practical guide to the Bangladeshi matrimony app.
- Image verification
- Phone verification
- NID verification
1. Introduce yourself
Get the Android app from Google Play and sign in. Add a photograph and current information about your education, work, general location and interests. Describe what matters to you in a life partner.
You do not need a long essay in every field. A small example of your daily life can make a profile more personal. Our biodata guide includes a practical outline you can adapt.
2. Browse and express interest
Explore suggested profiles or use discovery. Alongside age and work, read about interests, family and expectations. If a profile interests you, send an expression of interest.
Give the other person time and room to choose. A lack of response is not a reason to pressure someone. When you have an opportunity to talk, ask respectfully about anything you would like to understand.
3. Begin a conversation
When interest is mutual, follow the app’s communication steps. The free plan includes a one-time allowance to start or accept conversations. Your current allowance is shown in the app. Unmatching does not restore an allowance you have used. Pro is required to unlock additional people.
Start with something comfortable, such as work or interests. As you get to know each other, discuss family, values and expectations for the future. There is no need to make every decision in the first conversation.
4. Keep your boundaries
Think before sharing private information. Never send money, passwords or one-time codes to a new contact. Confirm important details independently; an app badge is not a full identity or background check.
Blocking and reporting are free. Review the privacy controls and support options available in the app. You decide whether an introduction should continue, and at what pace.
At your own pace
Make room for a new introduction.
